Inspired Intimacy. Radical Relating. Empowered Eroticism.

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You are erotic by nature

it’s time you reMember who and how you truly are.

Release the confines of shame, trauma and cultural conditioning that have stood between you and the radically satisfying intimacy you desire.

Exploring your Erotic Wholeness is a path to the pleasure, peace, passion and power that are authentically yours.

If pleasure was the measure

What would you choose?

The pressure to settle for our struggles is so common, especially where our intimate lives are concerned. Pleasure is seldom the measure we are taught and liberation is seldom the path we are shown.

The more disconnected from our pleasure we are, the more distanced from the wisdom of our bodies, the yearning of our hearts and the wildness of our spirit, the easier it is to control our minds.

Yet pleasure is a choice

just as intimacy is an artform and liberation is a calling.

Here’s How We Can Work Together

The paths may be many, but your Erotic Wholeness is one.

In Person Experiences

A coach in your [bedroom] corner? Guidance in navigating the terrain of your body, mind, heart and spirit? Hands-on experiential learning about everything from finding your true yes to understanding the anatomy of your arousal?

Welcome to your personal intimacy laboratory! All this and more is what you receive when we step into shared space together, whether for a multi-day Immersion or a series of Whole Bodywork sessions spread out over time.

Working in-person offers you a progressive embodied journey to develop greater ease, intimacy and confidence with your boundaries, desires and pathways to pleasure. Get to know your most authentic erotic expression and how to create truly satisfying relationships.


Whether you’re seeking something Self Paced to guide you in solo or partnered explorations from the comfort of your home or Somatic Video-Based Coaching is the more convenient way for you to engage, you’ve got options!

Explore a range of body-based practices as well as talk-based connection. Whether it’s unpacking your relational history, deepening your capacity for intimacy in the present or exploring the realm of desires and boundaries, so much possibility awaits.

We’ll focus on tending well to your nervous system, opening your heart and liberating your erotic nature so that you can show up with greater clarity and confidence in your intimate relationships and thrive in all aspects of your life.

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Hi! I’m Darshana and I'm delighted to meet you.

I’m here to nurture a culture of Erotic Wholeness.

I believe that each of us tending to our personal erotic liberation is an essential contribution to our collective liberation.

My journey began as a precocious child who loved to dance, move, touch and speak her mind boldly. I once thought I’d become a lawyer and spent more than a decade building a successful corporate career early in my adult life only to find my heart calling for something radically different. That call led me to blaze a path across the terrain of sexuality, somatics, social justice and soul.

Inspiration and guidance have come to me from many sources, including the potent voices of the Black intersectional feminist movement, the pancultural wisdom of many earth-based traditions and powerful modalities such as Somatic Experiencing and Sexological Bodywork.

I’m deeply honored to serve and inspire in the ways I do.

Here are some of the Tools in my toolkit

Sexological Bodywork®

An erotic-therapeutic modality rooted in somatic education and hands-on healing with a pleasure-centered ethos

Somatic Experiencing®

Body-centered trauma remediation and nervous system tending to support enhanced emotional resilience and vitality

Neuroaffective Touch®

A dynamic, psychosomatic approach to healing early developmental, attachment and relational trauma

Somatica Method®

A holistic, attachment-based sex and relationship coaching that emphasizes embodied experience and emotional intimacy

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Podcast Features

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Sexy Recs

These are personally tried and true recommendations for some of my favorite ways to spice up your sex. 


I’ve curated some of my top picks to inspire your learning and unlearning adventures.

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