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Don’t Spank Me – Sexology & Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila – Queer Women Rising

I had a rich, playful, and deeply honest conversation with Sophia Spallino on Queer Women Rising.

We explored the intersections of sexology, erotic wholeness, and queer embodiment, unpacking how healing, boundaries, and pleasure can coexist. From the myth of “good girl” conditioning to the tender work of discovering what truly turns us on, this episode invites listeners to get curious about their desires, release shame, and reclaim agency in love and sex. It’s raw, liberating, and full of laughter and truth.

Darshana Avila

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Darshana Avila

I believe that each of us tending to our personal erotic liberation is an essential contribution to our collective liberation.

My journey began as a precocious child who loved to dance, move, touch and speak her mind boldly. I once thought I’d become a lawyer and spent more than a decade building a successful corporate career early in my adult life only to find my heart calling for something radically different. That call led me to blaze a path across the terrain of sexuality, somatics, social justice and soul.

Inspiration and guidance have come to me from many sources, including the potent voices of the Black intersectional feminist movement, the pancultural wisdom of many earth-based traditions and powerful modalities such as Somatic Experiencing and Sexological Bodywork.

I’m deeply honored to serve and inspire in the ways I do.

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