Sexy Recs

Whether you’re exploring solo or partnered, whatever your orientation and preferences, there’s something here for you.  All you need is your curiosity and creativity, patience and presence, and these can help with the rest!

My Personal Faves

The ones that live on my nightstand for frequent enjoyment

A little lube can go a long way to enhancing your pleasure and I happen to like mine in the form of Foria’s CBD-infused oils

My most beloved little clit sucker is the multi-setting, waterproof Empress 2 by Vush, perfect for bath tubs, bedrooms and beyond

When it comes to insertables and stimulating g- and p-spots, the sleek, weight Pure Wand by Njoy is my hands down #1

Toy Stores

Because adults need to play too AND support rad businesses

Feelmore is a Black queer owned Bay Area community-centered gem offering up humor, education and a fantastic assortment of goodies to delight and inspire

Shop Enby focuses on radical inclusivity with toys, tools, modifications and more for all genders and orientations

Good Vibrations is a legendary institution, among the original sex shops devoted to shame free sex education and smashing the patriarchy

Ethical Pornogrophy

Pay for your porn & make sure it aligns with your values!

I’m pretty much obsessed with everything that Erika Lust is putting out there, especially XConfessions, but I’ll leave it to you to decide for yourself.

Bellesa is porn for women, a curated collection with a wide range of genres with the common theme of uplifting the pleasure of women

Jet Setting Jasmine & King Noire are changing the game when it comes to sex positive parenting & race in porn and


Whether you read or listen, let your imagination take you deeper

Read Aurore takes submissions from women and queer community for women and queer community

Dipsea Stories is audio-erotica that you can customize to your specific desires and even has sexy bedtime stories for adults

Literotica literally has hundreds of thousands of erotic stories of every imaginable sort, so get ready to dive in

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